Thank You, __(insert names here)___.
No, this isn't about Thanksgiving. This is about something RIDICULOUSLY stupid.
I would like to thank a few people who have tried and failed to pin blame on me. I think it's because people don't like being wrong. I'm definitely like that. I already get blamed for everything else in life, but THIS....this is not one of them.
According to these individuals, I've conjured up reasons to excommunicate them/people they are with/etc. from my life out of thin air. "I was confused. I didn't understand. I'm sorry I got upset. You didn't have to do this or that. You should've talked about it more. Give her a chance. Let me explain. It's not my fault. YOU did this. YOU did that. I didn't do that. I didn't say that. You're wrong. I don't know what you're talking about. I don't remember that. It's you who didn't do this or that-blah blah blah."
I'm human. I DO lie about things from time to time; I make tons of mistakes every day. As for something really important to me; if I actually need to defend what I'm standing up for...lies are not needed to make my case.
"You'll do anything to get your way. You're desperate to always be right. I heard you did this to that person. What's to stop you from doing that to me?"
People are truly incredible aren't they? Anything to sacrifice the scapegoat again and again.
To my ex-best friend, there's really nothing to bring up. There's nothing to explain or justify or argue about. Once I've cut someone out of my life, it's permanent. No take-backsies now. You knew I was capable of it. I've done it before. Maybe you thought you were an exception because we were friends for so long. I don't care. There's no point in trying to make it look different from what it really was. You have your own version, and I have mine. I'm not going to dig up something that I've already put behind me. We both messed up. Me more than you apparently. You had your own time to try to fix things. I had mine as well. But that time has passed. There's no going back.
To my best friend who has been accusing me of the most ludicrous things for the past two days, are you really going to believe the things that they've said about me? You were there. You saw that she didn't even show up to my grandma's funeral. No, it was, "Hey sorry your grandma died. I know she was important to you. But our relationship is more important right now because you're replacing me with your boyfriend." I opened up and told you how I felt...How stressed and drained I already was emotionally and mentally from everything I had to do.
But now you're using what THEY are saying against me to make me give your shady girlfriend another chance. She's had three chances already. From that, ALL your friends (not just me) have seen what she is and what she does.
She cheated on her boyfriend of two years with you. Regardless of how badly he treated her, you shouldn't have done that. She used a fake voice when we met her. She wears wigs. She wears basically the SAME EXACT outfit every time we've seen her; jean shorts, tights, a jacket with NOTHING underneath, and pale makeup. She's a living cosplayer, which btw, you've made fun of me and our friends who watch anime and cosplay occasionally at an annual convention. My cousin (who I'm really close with) has been wanting to date her for the longest time. And you cut in and took away any chance he had.
What was that? She said he has no chance with her either way? Well why doesn't SHE tell HIM that? Oh sorry, she's too shy. But they're really close! The two of them went out to Little Tokyo just last week! He's been at her place so many times and my boyfriend has had to pick him up in the middle of the night because "she's too tired to drive or she doesn't feel too good." She's not any of these things I'm saying? Well, why are you still letting her hide behind you?
He STILL thinks he'll be able to date her btw. He expects you two to stay together for only a few months. Go ahead and tell him now that she's been saying "I love you" and wants to move in with you after LESS than TWO MONTHS. But he said he's okay with us being together? Have you not understood me? HE DOESN'T THINK IT WILL LAST! That's why!
I hate bringing this up. Which is why I don't. But you seem to have an inexhaustible amount of firepower to try to force me and the rest of your second family to like her. Every time we talk even for a little bit, you just can't help but bring it up.
"I can't date girls I like because they all think you all are too weird, nerdy, and Christian. You're a bad friend. You haven't given her a chance. You are saying lies about her. You don't care about me. If you all really loved me, why are you putting me through all these trials? They told me the REAL truth and you're doing the same to me."
I've told you that I'm ignoring anything you say to me now. It's not ME who's ruining the relationships in the group. It's YOU. But you're still set on blaming me for everything. So fine. Go ahead. I will keep silent while you continue your tirade on me. You just can't seem to realize I'm not alone when I say that she is not good for you OR my cousin. None of us think so. His own brother doesn't even like her for him.
But whatever. Why would you believe anything I say? I'm apparently just lying out of my ass because I'm "desperate to do anything to get my way." I'm a horrible friend. I'm a conniving liar. I don't care about my friends or their happiness at all.
I would like to thank a few people who have tried and failed to pin blame on me. I think it's because people don't like being wrong. I'm definitely like that. I already get blamed for everything else in life, but THIS....this is not one of them.
According to these individuals, I've conjured up reasons to excommunicate them/people they are with/etc. from my life out of thin air. "I was confused. I didn't understand. I'm sorry I got upset. You didn't have to do this or that. You should've talked about it more. Give her a chance. Let me explain. It's not my fault. YOU did this. YOU did that. I didn't do that. I didn't say that. You're wrong. I don't know what you're talking about. I don't remember that. It's you who didn't do this or that-blah blah blah."
I'm human. I DO lie about things from time to time; I make tons of mistakes every day. As for something really important to me; if I actually need to defend what I'm standing up for...lies are not needed to make my case.
"You'll do anything to get your way. You're desperate to always be right. I heard you did this to that person. What's to stop you from doing that to me?"
People are truly incredible aren't they? Anything to sacrifice the scapegoat again and again.
To my ex-best friend, there's really nothing to bring up. There's nothing to explain or justify or argue about. Once I've cut someone out of my life, it's permanent. No take-backsies now. You knew I was capable of it. I've done it before. Maybe you thought you were an exception because we were friends for so long. I don't care. There's no point in trying to make it look different from what it really was. You have your own version, and I have mine. I'm not going to dig up something that I've already put behind me. We both messed up. Me more than you apparently. You had your own time to try to fix things. I had mine as well. But that time has passed. There's no going back.
To my best friend who has been accusing me of the most ludicrous things for the past two days, are you really going to believe the things that they've said about me? You were there. You saw that she didn't even show up to my grandma's funeral. No, it was, "Hey sorry your grandma died. I know she was important to you. But our relationship is more important right now because you're replacing me with your boyfriend." I opened up and told you how I felt...How stressed and drained I already was emotionally and mentally from everything I had to do.
But now you're using what THEY are saying against me to make me give your shady girlfriend another chance. She's had three chances already. From that, ALL your friends (not just me) have seen what she is and what she does.
She cheated on her boyfriend of two years with you. Regardless of how badly he treated her, you shouldn't have done that. She used a fake voice when we met her. She wears wigs. She wears basically the SAME EXACT outfit every time we've seen her; jean shorts, tights, a jacket with NOTHING underneath, and pale makeup. She's a living cosplayer, which btw, you've made fun of me and our friends who watch anime and cosplay occasionally at an annual convention. My cousin (who I'm really close with) has been wanting to date her for the longest time. And you cut in and took away any chance he had.
What was that? She said he has no chance with her either way? Well why doesn't SHE tell HIM that? Oh sorry, she's too shy. But they're really close! The two of them went out to Little Tokyo just last week! He's been at her place so many times and my boyfriend has had to pick him up in the middle of the night because "she's too tired to drive or she doesn't feel too good." She's not any of these things I'm saying? Well, why are you still letting her hide behind you?
He STILL thinks he'll be able to date her btw. He expects you two to stay together for only a few months. Go ahead and tell him now that she's been saying "I love you" and wants to move in with you after LESS than TWO MONTHS. But he said he's okay with us being together? Have you not understood me? HE DOESN'T THINK IT WILL LAST! That's why!
I hate bringing this up. Which is why I don't. But you seem to have an inexhaustible amount of firepower to try to force me and the rest of your second family to like her. Every time we talk even for a little bit, you just can't help but bring it up.
"I can't date girls I like because they all think you all are too weird, nerdy, and Christian. You're a bad friend. You haven't given her a chance. You are saying lies about her. You don't care about me. If you all really loved me, why are you putting me through all these trials? They told me the REAL truth and you're doing the same to me."
I've told you that I'm ignoring anything you say to me now. It's not ME who's ruining the relationships in the group. It's YOU. But you're still set on blaming me for everything. So fine. Go ahead. I will keep silent while you continue your tirade on me. You just can't seem to realize I'm not alone when I say that she is not good for you OR my cousin. None of us think so. His own brother doesn't even like her for him.
But whatever. Why would you believe anything I say? I'm apparently just lying out of my ass because I'm "desperate to do anything to get my way." I'm a horrible friend. I'm a conniving liar. I don't care about my friends or their happiness at all.
